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When visiting the dentist, do you tend to ask what you’re doing wrong more than what you’re doing right? In the moment, you may not think about all the ways you are taking proper care of your smile and instead focus only on what is likely going wrong. If you’re like most people, you may lean toward the negative instead of the positive, but failing to ask what you’re doing right is a missed opportunity! What do I mean? Keep reading to find out!
The Focus Remains on Problems
When you have a painful toothache, or something appears “off,” you’ll naturally focus on the problem. It’s normal. As a dentist, I completely understand. But what you may forget is that your dental visits are opportunities to receive positive feedback from your dental team on what you’re doing right to keep your oral health in check!
What Question Do I Wish Patients Would Ask More?
It may not be top of mind when you visit your dentist, but I wish more patients like you would ask, “What am I doing right?”
Believe it or not, the answer can change how a person approaches their oral health. Sharing positive feedback, such as “your flossing technique has improved” or “the new habit you’ve started is making a big difference,” can give someone the hope they need about their smile and overall health. Positivity is a wonderful thing!
Patients have told me they view dental visits differently after receiving praise. Needless to say, I never imagined something I said during an appointment could make such a big impact on how they now perceive and experience the dentist’s office.
Why This Positive Mindset Matters
It may not be new, but positive reinforcement works. Kids are not the only ones who benefit from this method of reframing. Grown adults who receive praise from their dentist are more likely to keep up the good work. Think of it this way: You started a new job, but no one told you what you’re supposed to do. You’d probably feel unsure; you might even consider quitting, especially if your boss or colleagues keep reminding you that you’re not doing your job.
Similarly, patients who only hear what they’re doing wrong can feel like all hope is lost and that nothing they do will make a difference. This can be depressing over time.
How a Small Shift Can Make a Big Difference
As a dentist, I want my patients to feel good about their smile, so I now volunteer this information and provide praise more often. Patients often don’t even ask, but I wish they would. Why? Because it’s powerful and confidence-boosting to have your dentist answer an important question like this.
The next time you visit the dentist, don’t hesitate to ask, “What am I doing right?” You may just be surprised by what they say and how it changes your outlook on your own dental care.
About the Practice
Woodside Dental Care opened its doors in 1994 and is currently led by a team of dentists with decades of experience and a compassionate approach to care. Dr. Cornetta owns Woodside Dental Care and earned his dental degree from the University of Maryland School of Dentistry. He is currently on track to earn his Fellowship in the Academy of General Dentistry. Prioritizing patients’ preventive care and oral health, he encourages individuals to ask questions and become more informed about their overall wellness. If you would like to learn more about the care you can expect to receive at our office, visit our website or call us at (718) 898-6010.